Tag Archives: Adoption Stories
Posted on 25. Oct, 2014 by Tim.
If you’ve followed my story about how I became a dad and how my wife and I adopted our daughter in 2007 and our son in 2012, you know the road to building our family has been an amazing and wild ride.
Our experiences have inspired me to help other hopeful adoptive families through InfantAdoptionGuide.com and the Infant Adoption Guide Podcast. I’ve recorded a podcast episode about our journey so if you’d like to listen to how we’ve made it through our first two adoptions, check out episode 12.
The big news for our family is that we are adopting again!
My hope and prayer is that our adoption stories will inspire and help you in your adoption journey.
Excited (and anxious) for adoption #3
Just like any family who are “expecting” to add to their family, my wife and I are super excited to adopt again. We are also a bit nervous and anxious.
It may surprise you that we are nervous after adopting twice, but that’s the thing with domestic infant adoption – every story is unique and there are no guarantees. You just don’t know how the whole thing is going to play out.
What do I mean by this? There could be a failed match (or more than one) with an expectant mother, where we may be invested emotionally and/or financially only to start over with waiting for the right match.
After two successful adoptions, we know how we would like it to go. We know what it takes to build our family, but we also know it can be a roller coaster ride.
Where we are right now in our journey
We decided to work again with our friends at Lifetime Adoption Center, just as we have on our first two adoptions. They are great and we are comfortable with them. We know what we get and they do what they say they will do so we trust them. We feel that Lifetime will minimize our risk of a failed match or failed placement.
Here’s our TO-DO list: [...]
Posted on 30. Jul, 2014 by Tim.
Can you imagine your first adoption taking 10 days? In this episode you’ll hear how that happened for Jake Stewart. He and his wife have adopted twice – both newborns. Adoption stories are inspiring and can provide hope on our own journey. Jake will tell the stories about how his children became part of their family. The photo above is with Jake and his family – including both of this kids’ birthmoms.
What you will learn about in this episode:
- How Jake and his wife adopted their two kids – one within 10 days and one within a few months.
- What open adoption means to Jake and his family.
- Tips from a guy’s perspective about how to get on board with the adoption process.
- How Jake and his family had both of their children’s birthmoms stay at their house – on the same weekend.
- AND MUCH MORE!
Posted on 19. Jun, 2014 by Tim.
The following is a guest post from Darin Moss. He shares his incredible story of how he and his wife recently adopted a little boy and how he was able to celebrate Father’s Day in a special way. Enjoy!
I’m sleep deprived…
I go days without a shave…
I’ve been pooped on, peed on, spit up on, and screamed at… And that’s just in one afternoon…
And I’m the happiest I’ve ever been…
I’m the new dad of a 14 week old little boy.
After nearly two years with our adoption agency awaiting “The Call”, the daily anxious anticipation was gone, the frantic checking of caller ID with every phone call had stopped long ago, and the cool factor of the adoption wait had long since worn off. [...]
Posted on 29. May, 2014 by Tim.
Over the past few years, my wife and I have bought several children’s books about adoption that we have read to our little ones. We like the books because they help us tell our kids about adoption.
The problem with most of these books is that they tell someone else’s story. Every adoptive family has their own story to tell. Our two kids definitely have their own stories.
It would be so nice to read the storybook of how our kids became part of our family – maybe even with their own name in the book!
That is the idea Keith had when creating My Adoption Storybook.
This book is so different than anything I’ve seen before. It lets you customize and personalize it to tell your child’s adoption story – including your child’s name, your photos and text. The book is filled with wonderful illustrations that work perfectly with your story. [...]
Posted on 01. May, 2014 by Tim.
“When it comes to your adoption profile, everything you include should paint a picture of the life you wish to share.” Madeleine Melcher
In domestic infant adoption, the most important tool you have to help you get a quick match with an expectant mother is your adoption profile. Recently I wrote an article showing you 9 places to get your profile professionally designed.
On this episode of the Infant Adoption Guide Podcast, we chat with Madeleine Melcher – one of the designers from that article. She has a very unique perspective in the adoption world. She is an adoptee and also an adoptive mom of three.
Madeleine’s website is OurJourneyToYouAdoption.com – which is dedicated to designing adoption profiles. She has helped lots of hopeful adoptive parents since 2005. Her unique designs have led some of her clients to be chosen within a few days after they’ve completed their profiles and were being presented to expectant parents.
Her latest book How to Create a Successful Adoption Portfolio: Easy Steps to Help You Produce the Best Adoption Profile and Prospective Birthparent Letter, was just released in 2014. She shares the secrets she has discovered over years of creating successful portfolios, profiles and prospective birth parent letters. [...]
Posted on 26. Jan, 2014 by Tim.
In this episode of the Infant Adoption Guide Podcast, we chat with adoptive mom Lisa Hamilton. She shares her domestic infant adoption story.
This episode is all about how she started her family through domestic infant adoption. Lisa shares her heart, her love for her son, and a lot of detail about her story.
What you will learn about in this episode:
- Why Lisa decided on domestic infant adoption.
- How long she waited to be matched with her son’s birthmom.
- How she researched and chose an adoption agency. [...]
Posted on 10. Jan, 2014 by Tim.
Have you ever thought about working with multiple adoption agencies to help speed up the time it takes to connect with a potential birthmother? Maybe you are frustrated with waiting and you want to work with other agencies. This is where ParentMatch.com can help.
In this episode of the Infant Adoption Guide Podcast, we chat with Dr. Lori Ingber, the Founder of ParentMatch.com – which helps match hopeful adoptive parents with expectant parents by connecting adoption agencies and attorneys all throughout the country.
Dr. Ingber is a mother of four children – two of which were adopted. She launched ParentMatch in 2008 after her sister’s interesting journey to add to their family through domestic infant adoption.
ParentMatch is NOT an agency or facilitator. It is an independent adoption resource that allows adoption professionals with domestic adoption programs to network with one another in a secure, confidential manner. This means agencies and attorneys can pull together nationwide to match children quickly with the best family available…YOU.
No matter where you are in your adoption journey, this episode is for you. You’d love to shorten the adoption wait, right? Me too!
What you will learn about in this episode:
- Why Dr. Ingber decided to create ParentMatch.
- You’ll hear why her sister’s amazing adoption story inspired the creation of ParentMatch.
- How ParentMatch works – what the benefits are for you and for your adoption professional.
- Why ParentMatch is FREE for adoptive families. [...]
Posted on 10. Dec, 2013 by Tim.
There is no better way to learn about the adoption process and the emotions connected with adoption than to hear a story from families who have lived it.
This special episode is where I share my adoption story – how my wife and I have adopted two newborns.
Through it all, we learned that while adoption is not easy, it is SOOOO worth it.
Like many adoptive families, we struggled through infertility treatments. After 12 years of marriage, we knew more than ever that we just wanted to be a mom and a dad – however that was going to happen.
That’s when adoption became a reality for us.
We decided to go for it, having no idea about the ups and downs adoption can put you through. I hope and pray that you’ll learn more about domestic infant adoption and will be inspired by my story.
In this episode you’ll learn about: CLICK HERE TO CONTINUE READING
IAG011: Adoption Book Review: Interview With Adoptive Mom Deanna Kahler – Author of From Pain To Parenthood
Posted on 19. Nov, 2013 by Tim.
In this episode of the Infant Adoption Guide Podcast, we talk with adoptive mom Deanna Kahler, author of the book From Pain to Parenthood: A Journey Through Miscarriage to Adoption.
Deanna and her husband went through a lot of tough times in order to adopt their daughter.
From Pain to Parenthood is all about their journey to building their family through domestic infant adoption. As you read this book, you’ll follow Deanna as she tells her incredible story of going through painful miscarriages to get to the joy of parenting through adoption.
She holds nothing back as she shares her deep emotional struggle. You’ll be inspired by her and celebrate with her as she finally realizes her dream of motherhood.
I highly recommend this book! It is a very quick read as I finished it in 1 day! You can check out my 5 star review on Amazon. No matter where you are in the process, this is an adoption book you have to read.
What you will learn about in this episode: [...]
Posted on 28. Oct, 2013 by Tim.
In honor of National Adoption Month in November, several top-rated adoption authors have teamed up to bring awareness, inspiration, and support for adoption.
We have 2 special activities planned:
1. FREE downloads of adoption books all throughout the month (see list below).
2. An Adoption Tweet Chat on National Adoption Day – November 23rd.
Free Downloads of Adoption Books
How does this work?
Each book listed below will be available to download for free only during the dates listed next to the book. [...]