Archive for 'Adoption Stories'

IAG 031: Transracial adoption with Rachel Garlinghouse

Posted on 04. Mar, 2015 by .


Have thought about or considered adopting a baby from a different race? Are you prepared?

Transracial adoption can be an amazing journey that can still sometimes having you feel alone and unsure of what to do. This episode’s special guest is Rachel Garlinghouse, who is an adoptive mom of three. She and her husband have adopted all three of their children from the U.S. and all are of a different race than their own.

Rachel is a gifted author and loves to share her passion for transracial adoption. Through her experience, she says “I believe adoption is complicated, intricate, evolving, and bittersweet.”

Rachel doesn’t believe transracial adoption is for everyone, nor should anyone enter into it lightly. Her prayer is to help open hearts and minds so families will better understand and consider transracial adoption.

If you are new to adoption or you are already an adoptive parent, this interview with Rachel will increase your understanding and appreciation for transracial adoption.

Rachel is the author of several books. Her most popular one so far is called Come Rain or Come Shine: A White Parent’s Guide to Adopting and Parenting Black Children

This is an excellent book that will help you understand transracial adoption. She covers a lot of ground – from just getting started and preparing to adopt transracially – through parenting and raising children of a different race – to navigating open adoption, handling racism, and finding the support you and your children need.

What you will learn about in this episode:

  • Rachel tells her family’s incredible adoption story.
  • She shares her heart about what it is like to raise children of a different race.
  • She will explain why she wrote the book Come Rain or Come Shine.
  • Find out the most important things you need to know about transracial adoption.
  • Hear about Rachel’s newest project – a devotional/journal book called “Encouragement for the Adoption & Parenting Journey” which will be released soon! 

Links we talk about in this episode: – Rachel’s amazing blog where she writes about her experiences (and you can find her books).
Follow Rachel on her Facebook page: WhiteSugarBrownSugar
Come Rain or Come Shine: A White Parent’s Guide to Adopting and Parenting Black Children - Rachel’s popular book.
Encouragement for the Adoption & Parenting Journey - Rachel co-wrote this with Madeleine Melcher (adoptive mom and adoptee). – check out my 4 FREE ebooks to help you adopt faster, safer, and cheaper. – my new site that will give you a step-by-step guide to create your adoption profile video.


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IAG 023: An infant adoption story with Jake Stewart

Posted on 30. Jul, 2014 by .


Can you imagine your first adoption taking 10 days? In this episode you’ll hear how that happened for Jake Stewart. He and his wife have adopted twice – both newborns.

Jake Stewart familyAdoption stories are inspiring and can provide hope on our own journey. Jake will tell the stories about how his children became part of their family. The photo above is with Jake and his family – including both of this kids’ birthmoms.  

What you will learn about in this episode:

  • How Jake and his wife adopted their two kids – one within 10 days and one within a few months.
  • What open adoption means to Jake and his family.
  • Tips from a guy’s perspective about how to get on board with the adoption process.
  • How Jake and his family had both of their children’s birthmoms stay at their house – on the same weekend.


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3 flights, 33 hours and 9,000 miles to become an adoptive dad

Posted on 19. Jun, 2014 by .


The following is a guest post from Darin Moss. He shares his incredible story of how he and his wife recently adopted a little boy and how he was able to celebrate Father’s Day in a special way. Enjoy!

Darin with his wife and newly adopted son

I’m sleep deprived…

I go days without a shave…

I’ve been pooped on, peed on, spit up on, and screamed at… And that’s just in one afternoon…

And I’m the happiest I’ve ever been…

I’m the new dad of a 14 week old little boy. 

After nearly two years with our adoption agency awaiting “The Call”, the daily anxious anticipation was gone, the frantic checking of caller ID with every phone call had stopped long ago, and the cool factor of the adoption wait had long since worn off.   […]

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IAG 021: My Adoption Storybook with adoptive dad Keith Miller

Posted on 29. May, 2014 by .


In this episode, we talk with adoptive dad Keith Miller – the creator of My Adoption Storybook.

IAG021 MyAdoptionStorybook with Keith Miller

Over the past few years, my wife and I have bought several children’s books about adoption that we have read to our little ones. We like the books because they help us tell our kids about adoption.

The problem with most of these books is that they tell someone else’s story. Every adoptive family has their own story to tell. Our two kids definitely have their own stories.

It would be so nice to read the storybook of how our kids became part of our family – maybe even with their own name in the book!

That is the idea Keith had when creating My Adoption Storybook.

This book is so different than anything I’ve seen before. It lets you customize and personalize it to tell your child’s adoption story – including your child’s name, your photos and text. The book is filled with wonderful illustrations that work perfectly with your story. […]

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Adoption book review: ABC, Adoption & ME

Posted on 15. Feb, 2014 by .


A little while back I got an email from Gayle. She asked me if I would consider looking at her book about adoption. After checking it out on Amazon, I told her I’d love to review it. Shortly after that, my copy of ABC, Adoption & ME arrived. I have to say that I am truly impressed.ABC Adoption and ME

I had never seen an adoption book for kids like this before. It is so unique because is uses every letter in the alphabet to talk about lots of adoption topics. I especially like the letter F – it is for Family. Birth families, adoptive families – forever families. 

Written by Gayle Swift and her adult daughter Casey Swift – ABC, Adoption and ME is a great book to sit down and read together because it gives adoptive parents the ability to discuss adoption with their children. Each letter’s topic is coupled with descriptive illustrations that creatively covers different aspects of adoption.

You can start reading it when your child is at an early age and it will be a book they can enjoy for many years.

My 7 year old daughter (whom we adopted as a newborn) read the book almost immediately after it arrived. She had a big smile on her face as she read it – and commented several times about how she thought it was an awesome book! She loved the pictures and I could tell how each page captured her attention. […]

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IAG 014: A domestic infant adoption story with adoptive mom Lisa Hamilton

Posted on 26. Jan, 2014 by .


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In this episode of the Infant Adoption Guide Podcast, we chat with adoptive mom Lisa Hamilton. She shares her domestic infant adoption story.

Lisa is an adoptive mother, master’s runner, and happiness junkie. She adopted her son as a newborn in 2010.Lisa Hamilton running for IAG 014

This episode is all about how she started her family through domestic infant adoption. Lisa shares her heart, her love for her son, and a lot of detail about her story. 

What you will learn about in this episode:

  • Why Lisa decided on domestic infant adoption.
  • How long she waited to be matched with her son’s birthmom.
  • How she researched and chose an adoption agency. […]

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12 reasons why you need a local adoption support group

Posted on 16. Jan, 2014 by .

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The emotional ups and downs of the domestic infant adoption process can leave prospective adoptive parents feeling hopeless, discouraged and frustrated.

Going through the journey, it is so helpful to talk to someone who understands what we are experiencing. Friends and family can be supportive, but they don’t always understand the adoption roller coaster.

Getting a group of people together who share the experience of adoption can be a huge blessing.

They can help keep us focused on the path to building our family. It is a relief knowing we are not alone – there are others in our community who can provide the support we need.

So – what are these groups? 

Local adoption support groups. They are lifelines for prospective adoptive parents – providing hope and inspiration to get us through our journey to parenthood.

There are lots of reasons why these groups play a BIG part in the adoption journey. 

12 reasons why you need a local adoption support group:

  • You get to talk directly to people who have been there (or are still going through the process). Get and give empathy and support – before, during & after placement.
  • Get a regular dose of encouragement, inspiration, and hope to get through the ups & downs.
  • Find out how others have found creative ways to: fund your adoption, connect with expectant mothers, etc. […]

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IAG012: My Personal Adoption Story Through Two Domestic Infant Adoptions [Podcast]

Posted on 10. Dec, 2013 by .


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There is no better way to learn about the adoption process and the emotions connected with adoption than to hear a story from families who have lived it.

This special episode is where I share my adoption story – how my wife and I have adopted two newborns. 

We brought home our beautiful little girl in 2007 and our handsome little boy in 2012. Both adoptions had challenges, both are open adoptions, and both of our children weren’t born in our home state.myadoptionstorypic

Through it all, we learned that while adoption is not easy, it is SOOOO worth it.

Like many adoptive families, we struggled through infertility treatments. After 12 years of marriage, we knew more than ever that we just wanted to be a mom and a dad – however that was going to happen.

That’s when adoption became a reality for us.

We decided to go for it, having no idea about the ups and downs adoption can put you through. I hope and pray that you’ll learn more about domestic infant adoption and will be inspired by my story.

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IAG011: Adoption Book Review: Interview With Adoptive Mom Deanna Kahler – Author of From Pain To Parenthood

Posted on 19. Nov, 2013 by .


In this episode, we talk with adoptive mom Deanna Kahler, author of the book From Pain to Parenthood: A Journey Through Miscarriage to Adoption.

From Pain to Parenthood by Deanna Kahler

Deanna and her husband went through a lot of tough times in order to adopt their daughter.

From Pain to Parenthood is all about their journey to building their family through domestic infant adoption. As you read this book, you’ll follow Deanna as she tells her incredible story of going through painful miscarriages to get to the joy of parenting through adoption.

She holds nothing back as she shares her deep emotional struggle. You’ll be inspired by her and celebrate with her as she finally realizes her dream of motherhood.  

I highly recommend this book! It is a very quick read as I finished it in 1 day! You can check out my 5 star review on AmazonNo matter where you are in the process, this is an adoption book you have to read.

What you will learn about in this episode:

  • Why Deanna wrote this book to share her adoption story.
  • What the biggest obstacle she faced during her journey to adopt.
  • Why Deanna and her husband chose domestic infant adoption.
  • How they researched and chose an adoption agency.
  • What it was like when they first met their baby girl.
  • The one thing Deanna and her husband would have done differently on their adoption journey.

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November is National Adoption Month! Celebrate with FREE Adoption Books!

Posted on 28. Oct, 2013 by .


In honor of National Adoption Month in November, several top-rated adoption authors have teamed up to bring awareness, inspiration, and support for adoption.natl adoption month image

We have 2 special activities planned:

1. FREE downloads of adoption books all throughout the month (see list below).

2. An Adoption Tweet Chat on National Adoption Day – November 23rd.


Free Downloads of Adoption Books

How does this work?
Each book listed below will be available to download for free only during the dates listed next to the book. […]

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